Zach Beach

Love Reveals Everything Unlike Itself

Reading Time: 5 minutes An interest phenomenon occurs anytime we sit down and meditate to cultivate more positive qualities of mind and heart. Rather than experience those positive qualities themselves, we often feel quite the opposite. We sit on our meditation cushion to watch our breath but are unable to follow it for even a few seconds. We sit …

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Compassion Is More Important than Communication

Reading Time: 3 minutes Last week, I covered some of the basics for connected communication, including listening, validation, and communication. What that post didn’t discuss was the underlying assumption that communication is important in relationships. Yes, communication is important, but how important is it, really? And what might be more important than communication in a healthy partnership? Today, I’d …

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How to Actually Communicate in a Partnership

Reading Time: 5 minutes If you ask the average person what is important in relationships, they will probably answer “communication.” You’ve likely heard the famous quip “the three keys to a successful relationship are communication, communication, and communication.” It’s not just a clever saying, however, as even professionals espouse this perspective. Couples therapists Linda and Charlie Bloom similarly explain …

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The Monk and The Three Rain Barrels

Reading Time: 5 minutes There are a number of insightful stories in spiritual communities that involve looking at the same situation from three different perspectives. Sometimes there are three people meeting the same challenge, sometimes there is one person going through the same task three different times. Usually the first two parts of the story represent two extremes, and …

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See the Horrors

Reading Time: < 1 minute The meat industry knows if you saw the horrors you would turn vegan. The military knows if you saw the horrors you would be a pacifist already. The loggers know if you met the family of owls full of hopes in their new nest and the oil companies know if you saw the seal gasping …

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Loving the World: Part III

Reading Time: 5 minutes (This post is Part III of a three-part series on loving the world inspired by, and including poems from, my newest poetry collection, Pebbles, coming June 1st. See Part I and Part II here.) There are a lot of crises in the world today. War in Ukraine. Impending environmental collapse. Income inequality, racial injustice, and threats to reproductive rights. …

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